Moonrise

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Just an Aside.......


.....for you new Folks.....

I've been doing this for close to three years, and believe it or not.....I used to write. Not necessarilly good writing, but I wrote.......from the perspective of a heartbroken Man.....

Twenty years of marriage......*POOF*....gone, and the internal road to recovery, and rediscovering exactly who I am......

It went well for me, having that pain and internal review....I'm more content and grounded now than I have been in twenty years.......

Unfortunately for those who have followed and enjoyed the Journey from Angst to Happiness, it has obviously affected my writing....I feel almost obligated to post something most days.....

But being "happy" and having a Life, once again filled with things to do that I Decide need to be done, having a Wife and Partner that "almost" nderstands me....well, that's a bit of the reason for the "cute" postings. I've had a bit of a problem writing from the Heart because, well.......

This Wonderful Life is new to me. Having a Partner, Beautiful, Loving, TOUGH, and Empathetic .....well it's just a whole new world to me.

I'm going to attempt to share that with you....How to manage two completely different People, from different Generations, with Five Teenage Boys...."Cubs", together.....and how wonderful it can be.

Exhausting, by the way......So Here's a little one.....Notice things.

Yesterday morning, Saturday, I woke up late...about 0800....to hear a conversation between M'Lady Dragn and 'Lil Wollfie.....

"Remember when Uber,*the Labrador*, was just a baby, and how little he was?"

"Yah, Honey, he was small enough to sit in my hand....."

Well I walked through the conversation, and what hit me was that we, As a Family, can now have "Remember Whens"......

Ok, call me sentimental....you'll probably be right....

"Remember Whens" are important, and realizing that this was the first time Lil Wollf and Dragn had one.......

I teared up.

Two years since we started dating.....a couple months to our first wedding anniversary....She Love my Cubs.....I Love her Boyz.....They all Love Her.....

Can Life get better?

Nope.
Wollf

5 comments:

cry_alone said...

I hope to one day have what you have found.... go from the angst to the happiness, thoguht i'd found it...turns out it was what you'd said...and illusion of what i wanted. keep posting wolf, i love the cute posts, it gives those of us who are walkign the same path as you a happy hint at our futurnes...

aA said...

YEp, you are one blessed Wollf. From what I have read and from our conversations, you deserve the good that is in your life.

Brovo, brother Wollf! You're a good man, with a good heart, and now a life to match!

rthmcdragn said...

Sure do love my family!

Rambling Rose said...

I just wanted to say hi and tell you how happy I am for you and your family.

I'm glad you got your "just desserts". You are a good man with a big heart.

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